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Tuesday, October 24, 2006

::: crossing the line :::

yah...want to write something abt this topic today...abt crossing the line between friends and more-than-friends (a.k.a lovers)

imagine a scenario: you(a guy) and Miss A are friends for quite sometime...the two of you hit off quite well...always enjoying time spent together...and after some time, you feel that you actually like Miss A and wanna be more than just friends with her...but you just dunno how she feels towards you... "Does she feels the same way that i do?", "is she just being friendly?"....you wanna tell Miss A your inner thoughts but fear of rejection....and of course...you are afraid of losing her as a friend as well...what will you do?

man..emotions are a hell load of troublesome issues...

pj told me abt crossing the line...once you crossed that line of being just friends...it's somewhat difficult to get back to the initial state...maybe thatz not true...or at least that doesn't apply to everyone...but it does prove its worth to pple who don't take emotions too lightly...

to them...it will be awkward...they can never be friends as before...even if they still regard each other as friends...the feeling is just so different...

well...i used to belong to the latter...but i'm learning to take such things lightly...and i would try not to cross that thin line b/w friends and morethanfriends ...

it feels more comfortable to be just friends...njoying each other's company...with little or less commitments...well..if the feeling is mutual...it will surface someday...so...there is really no pt rushing into such things....


seen friends getting themselves depressed....been depressed myself at times...and i tink that'z really too much...self-inflicted painz to add on to the already busy and stressful uni life....not worth it i guess....

things are even worse when we are not even good friends to begin with...


hmmz...well...i dun tink i'm making much sense here...so i think i shall end it off...


\to all those who have gotten their hearts broken....do get over it soon and be sure that there is always a destined, better half out there for you...it's just a matter of time...fate of chance....blar blar...dun just rush into commitments....

\to all those who are happily in love....treasure who you have now...they are blessings for you...just like you are a blessing to them....

\to pple who know me....i'm actually feeling quite okay these dayz...no worries as life goes on...

思念 but not to the extent of 痛楚...you're just so lucky to be on my mind