haha...since yanz answered to the qns on pj's blog...here are mine...lolz....bloggers are bo liaoz pple that share their tot online....
1)Family, Love, Career, Friends and Money... List them in accending order of importance to u...
Career -> Family -> Money -> Love -> Friends
sorry friends...gotta put you guys last...coz all these 5 are so freaking important to me....though i can easily put love at the last...coz i can live without it...but who dun wish for someoen whom you can love and love you in return? lets be frank ba....
why i put career (career as in not those entrepreuner-type) in the 1st place...coz it can easily generate money...money is just the by-product of it...career does gives other intangibles like satisfaction....stability...etc....
family in 2nd? simply becoz you can't choose your family members....you still have the choice as in who you wanna befriend....
quite logical thinking horz....lolz...
2. Bf/gf... Humorous one? Sensitive one? Generous one? Knowledgable one? Full of character one(xing ge one)? Choose only one...
this qn has caught me...lolz...character...lolz...everyone knows i like 'you ge xing' de galz...(well at least now you know)...though i would very much prefer her to be a little bit sensitive to how i feel...generous enough in an elegant way...knowledgable to a certain sense..and humourous enough to pit my 'hei se you mo'...lolz...but galz with a certain charisma...character-wise are those that can catch my initial attention and rank high in my 'potential gfs' list...lolz...crapz...
i must say...in real life....it's hard larz....to even find a gf....hahaha
3. In a relationship, a Giver or Receiver?
have to agree with pj and yanz..i'm more towards the giver end bahz...."ren shi fan jian de"...actually when you are truly in love...you wouldn't be so calculative abt this...you will be unknowingly giving your better half your limitless care and concern...when you start thinking that you are giving more than receiving in a relationship....you will need to start asking yourself what you truly want from it....
ultimately, it works both ways...so why bother who's who? both are giver, as well as receiver...so long as you are happy....and he/she is happy...
4. A suitor..... tell him/her straight that u are not interested in him/her OR let him/her slowly realise that u are not interested in him/her...(he/she might not have popped the question to u)
this is a hard qn man....if she upfront confessed to me...then very sorry...i will upfront tell her the truth....no choice mahz...but still can be friends also mahz....but if she is those type that drop clear hints here and there...thanks for being so sweet...then i will also drop hints here and there to tell that the most we can be friends only...same answer? why yesh....pls dun toy around with pple's feelings....humans are farking vulnerable animals....
5. Friends/buddies/jie-mei fell in love with the same person... Fair competition or Give up?
hmm...think i had previous experience abt this bahz...normally..i think i am the passive type...if my friends were to fell in love with the same gal...high chance that they will not know abt it but i will....then most likely i would give up bah..unless...exceptional cases larz....of coz...i will go and find out abt how the gal feel...ultimately...it's the gal's decision mahz...maybe the gal doesn't like my friend...and maybe i got a chance also? but seriously...i really can't bring myself to say "eh..i also like her...lets have a fair competition" ....that's so me when it comes to love...
inferiority? perhaps bah...coz i may not be able to give her more love, care and concern than my friend....
though i would be very much better if it's my buddy who likes the same gal coz i know that the gal will be very fortunate to have him than to have me...lolz...touched? yeah..you should...
and once again..i would like to emphasise that the determining factor is still how the gal feels...as long as she is happy...i would feel happy for her...
this post sure makes you pple out there know me better bahz...lolz...i'm a very thinking person okay!!!!
1)Family, Love, Career, Friends and Money... List them in accending order of importance to u...
Career -> Family -> Money -> Love -> Friends
sorry friends...gotta put you guys last...coz all these 5 are so freaking important to me....though i can easily put love at the last...coz i can live without it...but who dun wish for someoen whom you can love and love you in return? lets be frank ba....
why i put career (career as in not those entrepreuner-type) in the 1st place...coz it can easily generate money...money is just the by-product of it...career does gives other intangibles like satisfaction....stability...etc....
family in 2nd? simply becoz you can't choose your family members....you still have the choice as in who you wanna befriend....
quite logical thinking horz....lolz...
2. Bf/gf... Humorous one? Sensitive one? Generous one? Knowledgable one? Full of character one(xing ge one)? Choose only one...
this qn has caught me...lolz...character...lolz...everyone knows i like 'you ge xing' de galz...(well at least now you know)...though i would very much prefer her to be a little bit sensitive to how i feel...generous enough in an elegant way...knowledgable to a certain sense..and humourous enough to pit my 'hei se you mo'...lolz...but galz with a certain charisma...character-wise are those that can catch my initial attention and rank high in my 'potential gfs' list...lolz...crapz...
i must say...in real life....it's hard larz....to even find a gf....hahaha
3. In a relationship, a Giver or Receiver?
have to agree with pj and yanz..i'm more towards the giver end bahz...."ren shi fan jian de"...actually when you are truly in love...you wouldn't be so calculative abt this...you will be unknowingly giving your better half your limitless care and concern...when you start thinking that you are giving more than receiving in a relationship....you will need to start asking yourself what you truly want from it....
ultimately, it works both ways...so why bother who's who? both are giver, as well as receiver...so long as you are happy....and he/she is happy...
4. A suitor..... tell him/her straight that u are not interested in him/her OR let him/her slowly realise that u are not interested in him/her...(he/she might not have popped the question to u)
this is a hard qn man....if she upfront confessed to me...then very sorry...i will upfront tell her the truth....no choice mahz...but still can be friends also mahz....but if she is those type that drop clear hints here and there...thanks for being so sweet...then i will also drop hints here and there to tell that the most we can be friends only...same answer? why yesh....pls dun toy around with pple's feelings....humans are farking vulnerable animals....
5. Friends/buddies/jie-mei fell in love with the same person... Fair competition or Give up?
hmm...think i had previous experience abt this bahz...normally..i think i am the passive type...if my friends were to fell in love with the same gal...high chance that they will not know abt it but i will....then most likely i would give up bah..unless...exceptional cases larz....of coz...i will go and find out abt how the gal feel...ultimately...it's the gal's decision mahz...maybe the gal doesn't like my friend...and maybe i got a chance also? but seriously...i really can't bring myself to say "eh..i also like her...lets have a fair competition" ....that's so me when it comes to love...
inferiority? perhaps bah...coz i may not be able to give her more love, care and concern than my friend....
though i would be very much better if it's my buddy who likes the same gal coz i know that the gal will be very fortunate to have him than to have me...lolz...touched? yeah..you should...
and once again..i would like to emphasise that the determining factor is still how the gal feels...as long as she is happy...i would feel happy for her...
this post sure makes you pple out there know me better bahz...lolz...i'm a very thinking person okay!!!!
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